For those who have or are considering it, adoption is one of the hardest decisions an expectant mother will ever make. Choosing to place a baby for adoption is the culmination of many factors an expectant mother must consider, including understanding what the process truly means for her child, herself, and the adoptive parents. While it may seem scary or overwhelming, there are many benefits of adoption that positively impact all parties involved.
For many birthmothers who move forward with the process, the benefits of adoption quickly come into focus, sometimes in unexpected ways. With adoption, families are united as they map out the best possible future for their child. Often, very special bonds are formed between birthmothers and adoptive parents. While adoption is a life-changing decision, it can open up an unexpected world of love and support.
Many circumstances or situations come into play when an expectant mother weighs the difficult decision to place her baby for adoption. If you’re considering whether adoption is right for you, consider these adoption benefits for birthmothers.
Knowing your baby will have the best possible future: By making the decision yourself, including choosing a family from our pre-screened adoptive parent profiles, you can take comfort in knowing your child will be loved and cared for.
Getting the support and resources you need: When you go through the adoption process, you’ll find there are plenty of services and support available to birthmothers free of charge. If medical fees and other pregnancy-related expenses (like rent, food, utilities, etc.) are a concern, adoptive parents can provide financial assistance for birthmothers to cover such expenses, depending on state laws.
Pursuing your education or career goals: For many women, an unplanned pregnancy can put their educational or career goals on hold. By choosing adoption, birthmothers can continue to work toward those goals, setting themselves up for a more stable and comfortable future.
Watching your baby grow: There are many different types of adoption. Birthmothers who choose a semi-open or open adoption have the opportunity to stay in touch with their child’s adoptive family. Depending on the level of contact preferred, birthmothers can receive regular updates about their child or have some level of direct communication.
Feeling supported post-adoption: Adoption benefits don’t end for the birthmother after her baby has been placed. Your social worker will make sure there is a plan in place for you to get whatever support you need after the adoption. Plus, there are many support groups for birthmothers that offer comfort, resources, and other opportunities.
These benefits of adoption help birthmothers feel connected to others in the community, supported, and empowered to move forward and achieve personal goals. Depending on the type of adoption chosen, benefits can also include relationships with adoptive families. Don’t just take our word for it! Discover the pros of adoption from real birthmothers who have been faced with the same decision.
"They sent pictures, talked to me, comforted me on everything I was going through, and always let me know it was going to be okay, and that Olivia will always know how great of a woman I am." - Bethany, birthmother
Read Birthmother Success StoriesFor many prospective parents who have been waiting to adopt a baby, completing their family is a dream come true. When a birthmother chooses an adoptive family, she’s fulfilling a wish for a child that families may have been waiting years for. Though connecting with adoptive parents may seem scary at first, it can be a blessing that could lead to a long-lasting connection and a meaningful relationship between birthmothers and adoptive parents.
The decision to place a baby for adoption is a loving one centered around birthmothers doing what’s best for their babies. When it comes to adopted children, there are many benefits that will impact each child for life. Here are just a few.
A safe and stable home: Adopted children are placed with pre-screened, legally approved families who have proven that they have the resources and stability to provide for a child.
Health and medical needs met: Birthmothers will never have to worry that their children won’t have certain needs met. Babies adopted by our families will enter loving homes and have their health and medical needs covered.
Great opportunities: Because our adoptive parents have proven they can provide for a child, each adopted baby will have a chance at life’s most important opportunities. Birthmothers can have peace of mind knowing that the potential for higher education and important career prospects will be possible for their children.
Emotional support and love: The most important question with any adoption is, "Will my child be loved unconditionally?" For our families, adopting an infant has been a lifelong dream, and many of them have spent years waiting to offer all of the emotional support, care, and love that a child needs.
As a birthmother, it’s always your choice to move forward with an adoption plan or not. Our coordinators will support you in whatever decision you make. We understand that, while there are many benefits to adoption, it’s a tough choice to make. At Angel Adoption, our caring team is available to birthmothers for support and guidance 24/7. Call or text us anytime: 815-307-5837
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