Choosing Adoption in Difficult Circumstances

For expectant mothers, the choice to put their baby up for adoption is never one that is made lightly. It’s a selfless act of love, one where a mother makes the best possible choice for both her and her baby.

Choosing adoption in difficult circumstances can complicate matters, and sometimes, expectant mothers may be wondering if adoption is still an option for them. The answer is yes. Regardless of whether you’re pregnant and homeless, suffering from addiction, in prison, or facing any other difficult circumstances, adoption is always an option, and for birthmothers, it is always free.

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You have options, always

When faced with choosing adoption in difficult circumstances, it’s important to remember that as an expectant mother, you have options. Below, you’ll find answers and guidance on a range of different situations expectant mothers may be facing, including incarceration, adoption without U.S. citizenship, addiction, homelessness, and more. At Angel Adoption, it’s our goal to help you get the information, resources, and support you need to make an informed decision.

Can I make an adoption plan in prison?

If you are an expectant mother in prison, you can still go through the same adoption process as any other woman, and we can certainly help. Speak with your prison caseworker about your options.

If you choose to move forward with an adoption plan in prison, we can help you regardless of how far along you are in your pregnancy. Our experienced coordinators can send adoptive family profiles for you to start looking through, or we can choose one of our loving families for you.

Depending on your prison’s rules, we may be able to help you get into contact with the family via letters or phone calls. If you’re unable to communicate with them directly, that’s okay. We will connect you with an experienced legal professional who will follow the regulations of where you are incarcerated to help you get your adoption plan into place and communicate with the family. The legal professional can connect you with counseling as well to help you process your emotions.

If you’re considering an adoption plan while in prison, you may be wondering if your sentence will be extended or if there are any other legal consequences that would happen as a result of choosing adoption. The answer is no. It is safe for expectant mothers in prison to choose adoption as an option.

Can I place my baby for adoption if I am not a U.S. Citizen?

If you are looking into adoption and are not a U.S citizen, we can still help you. As long as your child will be born in the United States, you have just as much of a right to make an adoption plan as any other expectant mother. You have the option of placing your child with a loving and supportive American family, and through our services, you can choose the adoptive family that is best for you.

We have waiting families of all backgrounds, and your citizenship will not affect the number of families willing to adopt your unborn child, and you can still choose the type of post-placement communication you would like. We work with experienced legal professionals that can work with you on your adoption plan and keep you safe and secure in the process.

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Can I make an adoption plan if Child Protective Services or the Department of Family Services is involved?

If you’re currently pregnant and CPS or DFS has an open case involving your children or they have custody of your child(ren), you CAN make an adoption plan for your unborn child. With a voluntary adoption plan, you can gain some control over the situation. Making an adoption plan in this instance allows you to choose the adoptive family and the type of post-placement communication that you want.

Whether you make an adoption plan before or after you give birth, you always have the right to make those choices yourself. It’s important to notify your caseworker and the hospital staff that you have an adoption plan for your baby. If CPS/DFS is called after your baby is born, inform them of your wishes to make a voluntary adoption plan, and call or text us at 815-307-5837 immediately.

We work with highly experienced legal professionals across the United States who can work with you and your caseworker to make your adoption plan successful. It may not be possible to make an adoption plan once CPS/DFS opens a case or takes legal custody of your baby, so it’s very important to start making an adoption plan and contact us as soon as possible, even if you’re still unsure about your final decision.

Can I make an adoption plan for my older child?

It is never too late to choose adoption for your child. Every parent faces different challenges and obstacles, and sometimes that might mean making the difficult decision to place your older child up for adoption. If, for whatever reason, you feel it’s in your older child’s best interest to place them for adoption, we can help. We have many wonderful waiting families that are approved to adopt children up to age five or older.

Like with any adoption plan, you have the right to choose the adoptive family and the type of post-placement communication you wish to have with the family and your child. Most of our families are open to an ongoing relationship with birth parents and biological family members, and yearly visits as well if you so desire.

We work with highly experienced adoption professionals across the United States who can provide you with whatever support you and your child need during the adoption process. Depending on your child’s age and other factors, a detailed transition plan will be outlined and put in place to ensure the well-being of everyone involved as the adoption moves forward.

Can I put my special needs child up for adoption?

If you find out that your unborn child will have special needs or you already have a child with special needs, you may decide adoption is in their best interest.

At Angel Adoption, you can choose the adoptive family that best aligns with your values and desires for your child’s future. Our team of coordinators can connect you with a loving adoptive family with the resources and support to care for a child with special needs. We even have families that are specifically approved to adopt special needs children.

When choosing adoption for a child with special needs, if the circumstances are especially unique, we will reach out to all of our waiting families with the details you provide in order to find a selection of families properly equipped to love and care for your child. We work with experienced adoption professionals across the United States who will provide you, your child, and the adoptive family you choose with all the support and resources needed to ensure a smooth transition for everyone involved.

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Can I make an adoption plan if I’m homeless?

If you are pregnant and homeless, you may be considering adoption for your baby. Choosing adoption if you are experiencing homelessness can provide your child with a safe, stable environment where their needs are consistently met. Knowing that your child will grow up in a loving and supportive home can alleviate some of the stress you may be going through and bring you peace of mind.

As you navigate the adoption process with us, help and resources will be available for you, such as counseling and financial support for temporary housing, food, clothing, and other pregnancy-related expenses. This can provide you stability and support so you can focus on working toward a more secure future for yourself. We will never judge you or shame you. We offer you caring and compassionate support to help you decide what is best for you and your child.

You have the option to choose the adoptive family for your baby and maintain a relationship with them if that is something you desire. All of our adoptive families have gone through an extensive background check process and have successfully completed an adoption home study to prove they are physically, emotionally, and financially ready to adopt.

Can I choose adoption if I am pregnant and experiencing addiction?

Absolutely. Choosing adoption when you are suffering from addiction is a strong, selfless, and brave decision. If you inform us of any substance use during your pregnancy, please know we will NEVER judge, shame, or punish you in any way. Your openness and honesty will only help us find the best family for you and your baby. We have many wonderful waiting families who are open to any type of substance-use situation, and we will work hard to make sure your child is placed with a loving family in a safe and stable environment.

In addition, we can provide you with guidance, resources, and access to services like counseling and financial support as you navigate the adoption process. Just like any other expectant mother considering adoption, there are options available to you, and you have the right to make an informed decision for you and your baby.

Can I choose adoption if my pregnancy resulted from sexual assault?

Becoming pregnant as a result of a sexual assault can bring on a multitude of emotions and uncertainty. Choosing adoption in this situation can be one of the most difficult decisions an expectant mother will make. Ultimately, it is a selfless act of love for both the child and the mother.

Adoption can provide you with the opportunity to heal and recover from the trauma of the assault and help you focus on your own well-being. Making an adoption plan can empower you to take control of your situation and make the choices you want to make, giving you a say in your child’s future.

If you decide that adoption is right for you and your child, you will be in complete control of your adoption plan and birth plan. You will have the opportunity to choose from many loving adoptive families that fit what you are looking for. You will also be able to choose the level of contact that you'd like to have with them, whether it be a fully open adoption, a fully closed adoption, or anywhere in between. You can also get access to support services like counseling and financial support to help you on your path toward healing and recovery.

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At Angel Adoption, adoption is always an option, no matter what your circumstances might be, and you do not have to go through this process alone. We are here to help you learn about the options available to you, free of judgment and pressure, so you can make an informed decision that is best for you.

Our compassionate team members will be there for you every step of the way as you make the decision that is best for you and your baby. Please contact us with any questions. Our coordinators are available 24/7 to listen, provide answers, and offer guidance to expectant mothers like you.

Call or text anytime: 815-307-5837